Basically, Literally – You know

There was a time when we had a swear box and had to put in a £1 for every time we swore.  At certain times of the year or month, the box would be full to overflowing.  There was almost enough to pay for the lost car keys, or whatever it was that had caused the swearing.  Whoops! There I go again – that’s another £1 in the box for “whatever”.  Yes, now our swear box has been replaced by a “basically” box.  Every time we say “you know”, “whatever”, “literally” or “basically” another £1 goes into the “basically” box.  All these words are meaningless fillers.  They tell our listeners that we aren’t concentrating or are thinking on empty.  “Patronising pulp” as I’ve heard these words described.  Personally, I was never against the odd “you know”, thinking it was quite chummy, until I was told categorically – sorry wipe categorically – it’s another filler, until I was told,  that I had to stop saying “you know” unless I wanted to talk to myself.  I then realised that filler words can become addictive.  You don’t even know that you’re saying them.   Lose the habit and gain courage.  A pause makes listeners want to perk up and listen.  “Basically” makes listeners want to listen to someone else.

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  1. This is great, Frances! And so true. Am going to start this myself and be more conscious about the filler words I use. Thank you. Can’t wait for Saturday’s session. Everyone is very curious about Arthur the Rat!

     

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